This got me thinking of all the idioms in English that refer to the tongue, when communicating. Here is a list from the site learn-english-today.
bite your tongue | If you bite your tongue, you stop yourself from saying what you really think. Often a very hard exercise that may or may not be helpful. Probably it's better to hold what you really want to say for a better time or a better way of saying what maybe needs to be said. Enough said! |
get your tongue around something | If you are able to pronounce a difficult word or phrase, you can get your tongue round it. As in, "Say not that the struggle naught availeth." Just because you can say it, doesn't mean that you have to know what it means. |
give rough edge of tongue | If you give the (rough) edge of your tongue, you scold someone severely or speak to them very aggressively or rudely. Helpful when you have to tear a strip off a person. |
hold your tongue | If you hold your tongue, you stay silent and say nothing. This is a bit like biting your tongue only maybe not as painful :) |
keep a civil tongue | People who keep a civil tongue express themselves in polite terms. I often fail this one when speaking to the civic employees at city hall. |
slip of the tongue | A slip of the tongue is a small spoken error or mistake. Probably similar to a Freudian slip - calling someone by the wrong name, for example. It's often the fatal error in spy movies!! |
on the tip of your tongue | To say that a word or answer is on the tip of your tongue, means that you're sure you know it but have difficulty finding it. A very graphic expression for a very irritating situation. |
tongue in cheek | If you describe a remark as 'tongue in cheek' you mean that it is not meant to be taken seriously; it is meant to be funny or ironic. I like the term but hate the gesture. Tongues can be so expressive. |
tongue-lashing | When you scold someone severely, you give them a tongue-lashing. Again similar to giving the rough edge, but presumably the body remains in tact, just beaten up badly. |
tongue-tied | If you are tongue-tied, you have difficulty in expressing yourself because you are nervous or embarrassed. Another graphic expression. It's often better to change the topic, as in "Oh what lovely Geraniums you have" - then trying to un-knot the moment. |
tongues are wagging | When tongues are wagging, people are beginning to spread gossip or rumours, often about someone's private life. This always reminds me of a dog. Fortunately they rarely spread gossip!! |
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Tongue-lashing |
Other terms not included in this list are:
Speaking with a forked tongue - telling lies or trying to deceive someone. Possibly an illusion to being two-faced or speaking out of both sides of your mouth. I always think of snakes, as in the snake-oil salesman.
Speaking with a silver tongue - Maybe not a snake-oil monger, but probably a politician. It means speaking eloquently so that people will follow you.
Cat got your tongue - obviously the opposite of the dog image - go figure. Remaining silent or refusing to speak, withdrawn.
Find tongue - finding a way to say something.
Loosen one's tongue - take someone out for a drink to get some inside information. Get the person relaxed in an informal setting. It's a deceit, but so many of these expressions are about being deceptive.
Mother Tongue - one of my favourites, though I envy those who can speak in many tongues!
I think, though, that Ogden Nash said it best:
I hope my tongue in prune juice smothers,
If I belittle dogs and mothers.
Have a great day
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